scrape crawl site info (emails)

Hello, I need 2 different items please advise if you can provide both or one or the other as follows: 1. I have a few websites that I need scraped crawled spidered etc to obtain email addresses from. (They are member sites and do not belong to me)You can do this for me or provide software to do it as I am open to both. I would prefer to purchase some software that can do it and I can use for several sites I need to complete but I am open to suggestions. I have tried several demos of crawler/spider type software and none could provide the results I am looking for. 2. I also need a bulk email sender that (if possible) is a stand alone program and doesnt need to use my ISP to send them. I did find one mailer sytem I liked but you need to give credit card info and correct address instead of Paypal which I wasnt willing to do. I would pay someone to do this on my behalf if better software for mailer only isnt available. Please PMB all questions...I would like to close this project as soon as I have someone who can do it. Thanks!!