Need traffic, SEO and link building

The website is www.ecanhappen.com. As you will see it's a bit messy at the moment but dont worry it is currently being redesigned. I need traffic, and exposure. i am seeking quality links to reach many people. I am seeking quality links and/or article submissions to help drive targeted traffic to the site. CONDITIONS: - no traffic exchanges or any automated traffic - no spam - no results after months ( maybe:) ) - no ffa links and any other kind of unuseful traffic To sum up everything: I need valid and REAL links on relevant sites. I am not looking for some hobby link builder that doesn’t really know what to do or how to create and eventually achieve the link development campaign. Serious bidders only. I would need evidence either in excel format or word containing the following data: -The exact URL (clickable hyperlink) of the site/page -Site Name -Site Type -Its Google Page Rank -IP address. ...and any other data that you may find relevant. 1. Links must come from relevant sites, i.e self help websites, personal growth etc 2.I reserve the right to cancel any link should i wish to 3. One link per domain