i'm setting up a freebsd 7 and php5 and apache 2 server with directadmin and the following:
1. postgresql (have directadmin plugin)
2. ruby on rails (have directadmin plugin)
3. turn on and configure the software firewall for freebsd 7
4. installatron for directadmin
5. clamav for exim
6. python (have install instructions)
7. mod_security
8. suphp (custom build script with directadmin)
9. install configure two serverwide ssl certs
10. edit the directadmin skin to use my logo and my footer
11. a way to secure all the tmp directories from hackers
12. backups that are automated and archived using rsnapshot or better utility
i'm quick to learn and already know how to do most of this but just need someone who's already done it to guide me
i need you to walk me through the setup via gmail chat