I have a site with just over 4000 members, I have little experience when it comes to making sites, so made a lot of mistakes. It is a picture heavy site, and has about 70 plugins.I get this is way too many and some will be slowing the site, but I don't have the time to go through them one by one to figure out what's making it slow. It is hosted using digitalocean, so there is no cpanel. 8gb, 4cpus and 160gb hard drive space.
I need someone skilled with wordpress, and site optimization, and someone who does not mind working with a adult site.