I am pretty new to wordpress and digitalocean, I have A adult site which uses buddypress so its like A socialnetwork. It has around 360 active members and 800 - 1000/views daily.
I am no expert at word press or server admin, the site is running very slow and has frequent cannot connect to database issue. I want someone who is expert to go over my site and find everything I did wrong to make it go slow then fix it and make it nice and fast for the users. I have already been told the file permissions are wrong and uses up more memory then needed and also some of the plugins and interfeering with each other, I have no idea about these things and want someone who can fix it all up for me.