I need someone to show me how to do different things on my custom built site. I won't be giving out server details so I will need to be instructed over msn.
Checking the server load and see which parts of the server are being strained
Using SSH to make the server more efficient
Using SSH to raise the max mysql connections
Restarting my server through ssh
Finding out if I need more bandwidth or hard disk space.
Figuring out why my site has been going down randomly for short periods of time
I also may need help with understanding how to find and remove certain things in my site.