We have a website running on the the DZOIC Handshakes script (social network script) We use phplist to email our members, need the following:
1. When members sign on, they must be added to the phplist email database as well
2. When they unsubscribe, they must click a link and then be taken to a page where they must confirm removal, but they can't just enter their email address, there must be some sort of email confirmation about the deletion.
3. This unsubscribe page must be a clean look so we can add it to our design